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Death, Sex & Money - Why Alan Cumming Doesn't Do Drama

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šŸ—“ļø 1 December 2021

ā±ļø 27 minutes

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Summary

The Scottish actor and I talk about body image, celebrating aging, why he isn't in a monogamousĀ marriage, andĀ the joys of taking ecstasy.

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0:00.0

What I'm trying to do is to normalise being a hot mess.

0:03.8

Even if you're successful and doing all these things and, you know, yes, that's my life.

0:09.1

But I still cry in the shower, you know, sometimes.

0:11.9

So I think realizing that you can still have a happy life, even though you've got some darkness in you, I think that's the way to go.

0:21.9

This is death, sex, and money.

0:25.6

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot and need to talk about more.

0:32.9

I'm Anna Sale. Manasale.

0:43.4

You know Alan Cumming.

0:48.5

Depending on how old you are, you might remember the Scottish actor as Eli Gold on the Good Wife or the Pee-Wee-Herman-esque TV host in the Spy Kids movies, or the MC in Cabaret.

0:55.7

Welcome, welcome.

1:03.6

Alan is 56 now, and he's just written a memoir called Baggage, Tales from a Fully Packed Life.

1:12.7

It begins around the time that he first performed that role in cabaret in the mid-1990s,

1:17.9

as his career was taking off and he was figuring out his public identity.

1:23.2

I was in Hollywood. I was making a couple of big films there.

1:34.7

And I found these pair of glasses on a sunglasses stall at Venice Beach.

1:37.6

And they were just round black glasses.

1:41.9

And they didn't have any, you know, they didn't have black sunglasses stuff in them.

1:42.6

It was just clear.

2:00.9

And I thought these were the greatest frames for me. And I write about in the book about how there's a play by Terrence McNally about Maria Callas. And she says, everyone must have a look. And she's doing this lecture and she looks at this person. And the audience goes, you do not have a look. And I think it's, that became my look. Because it's a look that really suits me. And I bought them and I thought, I'm going to make these my prescription glasses.

2:06.1

And I went to Australia and I got the lenses put into the frames in a little optometrist in Melbourne.

2:13.8

And the lady was, that's where my favourite Australian saying came about, she, I said, are you able to do this?

2:19.7

You know, I've got these sunglasses and can you put my prescriptions in? And I'm only here until Friday. Can you do that? And she went, shouldn't be a drama. And I just love it because it shouldn't be a drama. You know what I mean? It was, it was just that great, absolutely sort of, you know,

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