I thought all the time about, you know, am I going to be the first fat person that this person's ever had sex with?

And a lot of the times I think I was.

This is death, sex, and money.

I've been trying to date, and I'm, like, not on the skinny side.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

Our mojo just mixes, and that has remained true as our bodies have shifted.

And need to talk about more.

I'm in a sale.

A listener named Fitz Rush lives in the Bay Area.

In the past year and a half, he has fallen hard for a woman in

Columbia. Her name is Gia. She's nicknamed me her flaco. Flocko means thin, right? Like that

thin man? Always makes me laugh, yeah, because that's not who I see in the mirror when I look.

I first talked with Fitz six years ago for an episode that we did about infidelity.

Back then, he told me he had dated several women who were cheating on their partners with him.

And he described himself as overweight.

Fitz went by Joe in our cheating episode,

but he wanted to go by his real name this time.

I'm public now.

You're public now, so I will call you Fitz.

I will call you by your real name.

Sure.

And when we talked before, it was about the series of relationships you had had with women who were in other relationships.

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