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Death, Sex & Money - Skin Hunger: Part 1

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🗓️ 29 June 2020

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Along with the podcast Love + Radio, we've been asking you about how you're coping with a lack of physical touch in your lives due to the pandemic. This is what you told us. 

Thanks to the team at Love + Radio for their work on this collaboration. Look out for the second episode in this series later this week. 

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0:00.0

I just heard the call for people, folks who live alone.

0:05.0

I am living alone.

0:07.0

And I've been alone in my apartment for about six weeks now.

0:11.0

So it's been a while since I've had regular physical contact.

0:15.0

Yeah, it's hard.

0:18.0

I read recently about this phrase called skin hunger.

0:22.6

Humans innate need to be touched, and that rang so true and kind of put a label on what it is that I've been feeling.

0:30.2

As an introverted person, when someone else touches you, it sort of reminds you that you exist in the world.

0:37.0

It's not just like touching someone's hand, but it's also like watching them touch their own

0:41.2

hands or like hearing their voice or like seeing like the light bounce off their skin.

0:46.4

It's not sexual or romantic touch that I miss. It really is hugs from friends.

0:53.3

I guess what's getting me through is thinking

0:55.1

about the next time I can hug someone, anyone naked would be great.

1:09.2

So it was a few months ago now, I was laying in bed late at night, and I looked at Twitter.

1:15.7

And I saw this tweet from Nick Vanderculk, the host of Love and Radio, the podcast.

1:20.2

And he said, if I were in a sale, I would be asking my listeners how they're coping with a lack of touch in their lives.

1:28.4

But I'm not an assail. so I won't ask that question.

1:33.0

And then I said, let's ask it together.

1:35.8

That is Nick Vander Kolk, the host and creator of love and radio.

1:39.4

And tell me, like, for you, like, what was the little germ of an idea of like, huh, I bet people are

1:45.7

missing this? Like, where did that come from for you? I'd spoken with a couple different

1:51.6

friends who, you know, had mentioned like offhandedly that they had not had like any physical

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