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Death, Sex & Money - I Love My Dad, But I Don't Love Guns

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🗓️ 3 November 2021

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

A listener we're calling Jack wants to tell his dad that a passion for firearms is no longer something they share. 

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0:00.0

Hey, a heads up. This episode contains mentions of gun violence and suicide. So please take care while listening.

0:08.8

The first time I came out, I was saying that I'm your exact same son and I'm gay.

0:17.8

This is a little bit more like saying, I'm not the person you think I am

0:23.7

and that's I think that's

0:27.2

more likely to be hurtful

0:29.8

this is death

0:34.5

sex and money

0:35.9

the show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot and need to talk about more.

0:44.2

I'm Anna Sale.

0:53.5

Jack came out to his parents when he was 19 years old.

0:57.0

He was in his first semester of college and home for Thanksgiving break in West Virginia,

1:01.0

where I'm also from.

1:02.0

The way I got myself sort of psyched up to do it is that, you know, I had a, I figured out my scholarships for school, so I knew school was paid for,

1:12.4

and then I got a part-time job on campus, so I knew I could pay for my room and board.

1:18.4

And I was like, okay, you know, if this goes poorly, I'm going to be okay.

1:25.0

Like, I'm going to know where I'm going to be tomorrow.

1:28.3

So, Jack, nervously sat his parents down and told them.

1:32.5

My mom said, tell me something I don't know, and my dad was shocked.

1:36.4

Your mom really said that?

1:38.3

Yeah.

1:38.8

Well, I mean, she's not in so few words, but yeah, I mean, she looked at me like, yeah.

1:48.2

But I suppose she and dad had not talked about it because my dad just stared at me for a solid 30 seconds, kind of slack jaw.

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