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Death, Sex & Money - I Had Babies To Pay For My Baby

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🗓️ 18 January 2017

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

At 19, Sarah Short gave birth to her first child—and ended up thousands of dollars in debt. A few years later she carried twins as a surrogate to pay off the bills from her first birth.

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0:00.0

I was trying to think of a way to make money without putting my kids in daycare, and I filled out this application, and they called me, and they were like, hey, you're pretty cool, but nobody's going to want your eggs. But she's like, you're a great candidate for surrogacy.

0:19.6

This is death, sex, and money.

0:22.7

Do you by any chance know where I put my keys, phone, shoes, or nuvering?

0:27.3

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

0:30.6

You boys won that money game, didn't you?

0:32.5

And need to talk about more.

0:34.3

Don't you say your goodbyes.

0:36.2

I'm in a sale.

0:40.3

Sarah Short was 18 years old when she and her boyfriend found out she was pregnant.

0:44.3

I had started going to college, but I didn't know what I wanted to do.

0:49.3

And so, you know, my first impulse was, okay, I'm going to look into adoption.

0:56.0

Sarah went to her first prenatal checkup, and that got her worried about how she was going to pay her medical bills.

1:02.2

I didn't understand how health insurance worked. I mean, as far as I know, I think I walked into the hospital and asked them, where do I go if I'm having a baby? And, but then they

1:15.6

told me, oh, this health insurance that you have through your dad won't cover OB type services. And I asked

1:23.5

them, you know, is there something in place for poor people? Can I set up a payment plan?

1:31.2

And they just said, no, no. And so at that point, I really didn't know what to do, and I just didn't

1:37.7

go back to the doctor. Sarah eventually decided to keep the baby, but she didn't have another

1:42.8

doctor's appointment until she was seven months into her pregnancy. She tried to enroll in Medicaid, but she needed

1:49.2

to track down a copy of her birth certificate. Hers had gotten lost.

1:53.1

By the time I got it, I'd already had my daughter and they told me that there was nothing

1:58.2

they can do and it wouldn't be covered.

2:00.0

Do you remember when the bill came in the mail?

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