Since we last talked about your dating life, you sent us an email and you told me something that you didn't say before about your romantic life.

Yeah, it's not something that I'm always super eager to talk about, I guess.

I have been seeing a couple of different people in open relationships.

Hey, it's Anna with more hot dates, our series where we're following some of you while you look

for romance this summer.

A couple of weeks ago, I got on the phone to catch up with Jesse.

She's the 36-year-old programmer who lives in Montana.

In our first conversation, she told me that she's not finding a lot of guys she clicks with on dating apps.

But after we first spoke, she sent me an email to confess that she actually has been seeing a couple of men that she likes. They're just not single. One of them is married and has been for a while,

and then the other is seeing someone for about a year now. Both men are in open relationships. They've

agreed with their partners that they can date and sleep with other people.

It seems really, really normal.

And then all of a sudden, and I'll just have like this check-in moment where it's like, what the hell?

Like, what are you doing?

I'm curious how this started for you.

How did you meet the first guy who was in a relationship that you started meeting up with?

As everyone does on Tinder.

Yeah, he was very clear about what his situation was in his profile, and I was a little, I don't know,

I try to be open and open to possibilities.

And so I was like, okay, maybe.

But that was my first experience with any type of more non-traditional relationship.

So our first date was definitely like me showing up with a list of potentially invasive

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