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Death, Sex & Money | He’ll Move Your Couch, and Keep Your Secrets

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41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2025

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Adonis Williams has been a mover in New York City for 20 years. He says he's moved about 3,500 people, and with each move, he catches a glimpse of a life in transition. There are the happy moves: getting a bigger place, couples moving in together, kids going off to college. There are also the sad moves: divorce, breakups, eviction. Adonis says he talks with his customers about it all. "You become the bartender or the taxi driver that they need to vent to." In this episode, Adonis explains why he didn't charge money for the first five years of being a mover and what he's observed on the job about relationships, family, and the cost of living in New York. You can hear more Adonis in this episode, where he talked with one of his moving clients, and you can reach Adonis for a move on his website.   Podcast production by Zoe Azulay Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus. And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is [email protected]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I know in some places school doesn't start until after Labor Day, but where I live in Berkeley, California, we get back at it before the middle of August even hits.

0:10.2

And for my family, this transition comes with a big move.

0:14.0

We pack up two kids, two dogs, and three rats, and move back from Wyoming to the Bay Area.

0:20.4

We have done this for many years now,

0:22.8

migrate to Wyoming for the summer season. Partially, it's for my husband's work, and also

0:27.5

because we love getting to be in the mountains and in rivers and with people we love. But the move

0:33.3

back and forth, that stinks. The frantic energy of organizing and sorting and deciding what you can

0:40.3

part with and how much will fit and trying to tidy at the very end, it is never not stressful.

0:47.0

And it always takes longer than I expect. Moving is when we really have to confront that change is here. What has been is over, and it's

0:57.9

time for whatever's next. Our episode this week is about a man who lives in that in-between space.

1:04.8

Adonis Williams, New York City mover. We first ran this episode a few years ago, and we wanted to share it again because he

1:12.2

reminds me of the magic that also comes along with picking up and moving to the next thing.

1:19.5

I am, yeah, I'm six, four, uh, 248 pounds. My employees use the word, uh, brolic a lot when they see me pick up stuff. Like I literally

1:32.3

would just pick a sofa up over my head while two of them are struggling with it, you know,

1:36.5

and I'll just say, I got it, and I'll just pick up the sofa bed over my head and start

1:40.2

walking with it. And they go, oh, my God, he's so brolic.

1:50.2

This is death, sex, and money.

1:55.9

The show from Slate about the things we think about a lot and need to talk about more.

2:00.3

I'm Anna Sale.

2:09.2

If you haven't tried Abercrombie denim yet, you're missing out.

2:14.8

Denim should fit like this.

2:17.1

It's all about proportions.

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