We'll talk about anything and everything.

We don't have any problem.

Well, as far as you know, yeah.

And let's keep it that way.

This is death, sex, and money.

I can't unclench when there's turbulence.

You know, I'm an atheist.

The show from WNYC about the things we

think about a lot. You know what, but we're not a couple anymore. I need to talk about more.

Okay, so you don't have any money. I'm Anna Sale. And a few weeks back, we asked you to send in your

questions about life dilemmas, ranging from the minuscule to the major.

It was for a live advice show that we did in New York with comedian Hurry Kandibolu and his mom, Uma Kandibolu.

I first met Hurry and Uma last year.

I interviewed them on stage in Brooklyn when I was six months pregnant.

Uma talked about raising Hurry and his brother in Queens,

and she gave me some parenting advice. And she continued to check in with me after the show.

As I told our live audience, I got a text a few weeks after we met. This is from Uma. Condabolu

on my phone. Hi, Anna. How are you thinking about you every day? Still working? Health is okay?

So you're just checking in. And we exchanged text after my baby June was born in June, and she

gave me a thumbs up when I sent a picture. So they are the kind of people that you feel looked after

by. So I'm so glad they are here to answer advice questions.

So without further ado, we're going to start with our first question from a listener from

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