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Death, Sex & Money - Dead People Don't Have Any Secrets

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3.91.1K Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2021

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Amanda's husband Sam had a lot of secrets, most of which she discovered after his death. That made grieving, and moving on, a lot more complicated.

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0:00.0

Dead people don't have any secrets. In fact, really sick people don't have any secrets. This is death, sex, and money. The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot and need to talk about more. I'm Anna Sale.

0:29.4

The first few texts that came to my husband's phone,

0:35.3

and then it became more insistent.

0:40.4

Where are you?

0:41.6

Why are you not responding to me?

0:45.1

This is Amanda.

0:46.8

That's not her real name.

0:48.4

She first told us this in an email,

0:50.7

but asked us to change all the names in this story to protect her family.

0:54.1

I did a internet service. email, but asked us to change all the names in this story to protect her family.

0:59.6

I did a internet search for the number.

1:01.7

Realized I knew who it was.

1:05.7

I wrote back and said, this is Sam's wife.

1:08.4

He can't respond to you now.

1:10.3

He's in the hospital.

1:12.5

Please don't text anymore.

1:16.2

And at what point was that in Sam's coma?

1:19.8

He'd been in the hospital at that point for maybe three days.

1:24.2

I talked with Amanda where she works on the East Coast.

1:25.8

She's in her 40s now.

1:28.4

She was 27 when she got married to her husband,

1:30.0

who was several years older.

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