I mean, I certainly kind of consider myself to be the go-to person for if you really want to have a conversation about what having kids is like, you know, and maybe want somebody to talk you out of it. Come to Diane.

This is death, sex, and money. That's probably why they invented TiVo so people could have sex.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

They both screw people for money.

And need to talk about more.

Why did you have to die?

I'm Anna Sale.

I first met Diane Gill Morris on the Death, Sex, and Money Facebook page.

We'd posted an article about people thinking about having kids, and Diane commented,

We have two teenage boys with autism.

I love them deeply, but she wrote, if someone had told me that this is what it'd be like, I never would have had kids.

We reached out to Diane in North Carolina, where she lives outside Raleigh.

I just feel like we live in a society where, especially, you know, now with Facebook and everybody will post

these great, beautiful pictures of their kids and talk about all their great successes and how

wonderful things are.

And I feel like sometimes it would benefit people to understand that you go into kids

thinking that it's going to be this wonderful, amazing, lifelong experience,

and the reality is it may just take so much more from you than you would have imagined.

What she imagined was very different when she first met her husband, Greg. She was 18, a college

sophomore. They were both studying journalism at the University of Missouri. And I was in love with him

within three weeks. Why? He's just, we just click. Like, you know, I was just crazy, but like I got home, like,

literally after our first date and called my mother and I said, oh my God, you won't believe

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