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Death, Sex & Money - A Weekend Homework Assignment From Tayari Jones

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🗓️ 10 April 2020

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

One of the things writer Tayari Jones has learned in isolation is mastering different forms of connection, from re-learning how to teach her college students over Zoom to sending money to friends in need. The simplest way she's connecting? Greeting cards! "People love to receive cards and I have so many of them and I just imagined that if people are at home alone feeling isolated, wouldn't it be nice to get a card even if it's the wrong holiday?"

In that spirit, this weekend we're asking you to send a greeting card to someone in your life. Send us pictures, record a voice memo and email us at deathsexmoney@wnyc.org by Monday morning.

Sign up for our newsletter today at deathsexmoney.org/newsletter. And follow our show on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram @deathsexmoney. Got a story to share? Email us any time at deathsexmoney@wnyc.org.


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0:00.0

This is Death, Sex, and Money from WNYC.

0:03.8

I'm Anna Sale.

0:05.4

One of the things that's been helping me, as I've been self-isolating over the past few weeks,

0:10.5

has been checking in with some of the people I've talked to on the show over the years to see how they're doing.

0:15.5

And to inspire you for this weekend's homework assignment,

0:18.9

we wanted to share a check-in call I recently had with the writer

0:21.8

Tayari Jones, the author of the best-selling novel, An American Marriage. She and I first talked on

0:27.8

the show a few years ago, as she was getting ready to move from New York down to Atlanta, where she

0:32.2

grew up. She wanted to be closer to her aging parents, and she'd gotten a job on the faculty

0:37.1

at Emory

0:37.7

University. Now, like most universities, Emory has moved to online instruction for the rest of the

0:44.2

semester. So Tiari is leading an undergraduate writing seminar from her home via Zoom with mixed

0:51.0

success. We're doing our best, and I think that we're bonding over our effort to do our best.

0:57.6

But I feel that something's lost, and my biggest sadness is that I didn't get to say bye to them.

1:02.8

When I saw them last before their spring break, I was like, be careful, everybody, see you week after next.

1:08.0

And then we won't ever gather again.

1:10.5

Are you staying mostly home now

1:12.2

where you are? Yes, I'm staying home. I am staying home. I take a daily walk around the block,

1:18.0

otherwise I stay home. What have you noticed about it so far? Well, one thing I've learned is that I

1:26.4

enjoy my own company. I'm grateful for that. But I've also, I've learned a lot of things. I feel that I'm living more for myself because I'm alone in my house. I have my own audience for my life right now. And I think that is the positive thing that I'm learning about who I am. I'll be 50 years old. This is my 50th year. I'll be 50

1:47.5

on my birthday. And this is the first time since I was a child that I can remember not worrying

1:55.0

about how I look. That has been really, I keep a journal and I'm just writing about all the ways that my life is changing right now, what that has taught me about the life I used to lead.

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