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🗓️ 10 December 2025
⏱️ 55 minutes
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In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp dive into discipline, motivation, and the realities of staying committed when life gets heavy. They discuss sustaining purpose in long-term work, navigating burnout, and understanding the difference between quitting and evolving.
The conversation takes a powerful turn as Ryan opens up about the passing of his father and what it truly means to forgive and move forward. They also address why men seek validation, how to handle relationship breakdowns, and what books shaped them this year. Practical, grounded, and deeply human - this episode hits every level.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Opening & Morning Discipline
01:56 What Keeps You Driven?
11:26 Quitting vs. Evolving
20:02 Burnout and Battle Plans
26:05 Losing a Father & Processing Grief
34:56 Why Men Seek Validation
49:43 Most Impactful Books of the Year
56:12 Iron Council Preview Promotion
58:49 Closing Remarks
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| 0:00.0 | Years and years ago, my father passed away. |
| 0:03.1 | My mom had called me and she said, hey, your dad's in the hospital. He had a heart attack. I brushed it off a little bit. I said, I'll be fine. He'll be fine. No, you really need to visit him. His organs are shutting down. And I got to the hospital and she came out and I said, well, dad and she said he passed away I was mad at him |
| 0:22.6 | which is why I didn't go see him initially again acknowledge the humanity forgive where you can |
| 0:27.9 | live a life that he would be proud to call you son kip what's up man great to see you I just told |
| 0:34.6 | you I'm scrambling today I don't know what is going on. I feel a little behind. I did wake up late later than normal. So I didn't have my normal hour or two before I get started with the day. And isn't that weird? If you get up a little earlier and you get after it with a workout with hanging out with your kids, planning out your day, |
| 0:56.5 | whatever it might be. |
| 0:57.4 | Your day just goes that much better, even though you've maybe got two hours less of sleep. |
| 1:01.8 | I don't know. |
| 1:02.4 | It's proven to be true for me. |
| 1:04.4 | It's wild. |
| 1:05.8 | And we all know that, but yet it's still hard to do. |
| 1:28.6 | It is. Some mornings, you know. It is hard. It's wild. I know better. Yeah. You got to force yourself in a lot of ways to do it. You know, and I know a lot of guys ask about that. How do I, how do I have discipline? How do I do this? How do I do things when I don't want to? You just do it and you attach the results to the effort. And it doesn't make it always easier. It doesn't mean you're not always be able to |
| 1:33.5 | overcome whatever temptation you have to slack or take it easy, but it just means you're more |
| 1:40.6 | likely to do it. And that's it. Yeah. That's wild. yeah that's wild right man well should we get into some |
| 1:46.1 | questions today yeah absolutely um we'll just jump right into it we're going to fill the questions |
| 1:51.7 | from our brotherhood the iron council uh to connect and join us there go to order of man dot com |
| 1:57.2 | slash iron council Shane newman you both have been pushing the needle with the Iron Council for |
| 2:03.9 | years. What keeps you both rooted and always working for the greater good of all men? |
| 2:10.0 | Bodies get tired, mind wonders. Your give a damn busted. What mantras, quotes, anything that keeps you saying to yourself i want more |
| 2:22.3 | well as it relates specifically to this work what drives me is just seeing a message that i get |
| 2:29.3 | from an individual who says hey man you changed my life in this way. It was so meaningful. |
| 2:41.2 | Or I listened to a podcast interview that you did and what your guest said is something I'd never considered before and I tried it and it works. I got three phone calls from acquaintances |
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