meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Dear Sugars

Dear Sugar: How Do I Survive The Critics?

Dear Sugars

WBUR

Wbur, Advice, Steve Almond, Society & Culture, Cheryl Strayed, Sugar, Dear, Boston

4.55.9K Ratings

🗓️ 14 March 2015

⏱️ 28 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

The Sugars take on the pain that comes with being judged for one's work, and the ways in which we can learn from even the most brutal of judgments. They're joined by the writer George Saunders, who helps field a question from an author feeling crushed by first reviews. Saunders recalls his own first experience of being publicly condemned, which sent him down to his basement for three days.

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Support for WBUR comes from the Peabody Essex Museum, presenting Salem's only collection of authentic objects from the 1692 Salem Witch Trials. Now on view. For tickets, you can visit PEM.org. Ready to launch your business? Get started with the commerce platform made for entrepreneurs. Shopify is specially designed to help you start, run and grow your

0:22.4

business with easy customizable themes that let you build your brand, marketing tools that get

0:27.5

your products out there. Integrated shipping solutions that actually save you time, from startups to

0:32.4

scale ups, online, in person and on the go. Shopify is made for entrepreneurs like you.

0:38.4

Sign up for your $1 a month trial at Shopify.com slash setup.

0:44.2

Dear Sugar is supported by...

0:50.3

The universe has good news for the lost, lonely, and heart sick.

0:56.1

Sugar is here, the both of us, speaking straight into your ears.

1:01.2

I'm Cheryl Strayed.

1:02.7

I'm Steve Almond.

1:03.9

This is Dear Sugar Radio.

1:06.2

Oh, dear song, won't you please?

1:11.6

Share some middle. Oh dear song, won't you please?

1:18.6

Share some little sweet days with me.

1:34.3

I check my bellbys every day. Oh, in this sugar, you've seen my way.

1:42.3

Dear Sugar, I am a writer struggling to accept my first bad reviews and then somehow let them go. It's a privilege problem. My first book is making its way in the world,

1:46.3

and that is a gift I'm grateful for. But it is a piece of work so close to my heart, so deeply personal,

1:52.5

that every time I receive a negative review, I feel it like a punch in the gut. I begin to think

1:58.1

that my book is not only mediocre, it is bad, a worthless bunch of words

2:02.4

that was never good enough to publish. This process is only just beginning, and if I'm lucky,

2:08.0

I'll write more books and will get more bad reviews, but I have to ask, is there a way through

2:13.1

these devastating feelings? Is there some shortcut, some magical technique to make it hurt less? How do you guys

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from WBUR, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of WBUR and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.