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Big Mood, Little Mood with Daniel M. Lavery

Dear Prudence: The "Regret Baby" Edition

Big Mood, Little Mood with Daniel M. Lavery

Slate Podcasts

Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 12 July 2016

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Dear Prudence and Slate’s Christina Cauterucci take on behavior that goes from bad to worse: a “toxic friend” who uses her mental health issues to get away with abusing her friends; a man trying to shame his wife into having a “regret baby” seven years after they both agreed to an abortion; and a father who wants to tell his preteen sons how much he doesn’t love their mother. Plus, Prudie advises a woman wondering if she can move into her own place even though she’s happily married, encourages a listener to go for it with an eager ex, and meditates on weak endings and the deadening managerial mantra, “If there’s time to lean, there’s time to clean.”

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0:00.0

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0:08.1

Dear Prudence.

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Dear Prudence.

0:10.0

Dear Prudence.

0:12.0

Dear Prudence.

0:12.1

Dear Prudence.

0:13.0

Dear Prudence.

0:14.9

Do you think that I should contact him again?

0:18.4

Help.

0:18.9

Help.

0:19.4

Thanks.

0:19.7

Thanks.

0:20.3

Thank you.

0:20.9

Hi.

0:21.8

Thank you.

0:35.8

Hi, and welcome back to the Dear Prudence podcast. And today in the studio we've also known as Dear Prudence. And today in the studio,

0:39.1

we've got with us Slate's very own, Christina Cauterucci. And before we get started today,

0:44.1

I wanted to talk to you a little bit about summer jobs. We are coming up on summer. We're not

0:49.1

coming up on summer. We're in the middle of summer. And I was thinking the other day, especially

0:53.7

of a particular phrase that

0:55.2

gets used a lot when people have summer jobs, especially in retail or in food service. And it's one of the

1:01.0

most upsetting phrases I think in human history, and that is if there's time to lean, there's time to

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