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Big Mood, Little Mood with Daniel M. Lavery

Dear Prudence: The "Nixed Nuptials" Edition

Big Mood, Little Mood with Daniel M. Lavery

Slate Podcasts

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Relationships

4.41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 20 November 2018

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

Prudence is joined this week by Carta Monir, an Ignatz award-winning cartoonist living in Ann Arbor, Michigan, and Grace Lavery, an Assistant Professor of English at UC Berkeley. Together, this power trio tears into letters about what to do when your father disapproves of your decision to keep your maiden name, how to handle your daughter’s sleepovers with a male identified transgender friend, should you get back together with your boyfriend when he prioritizes his mother and sister over you, how to reenter the dating world after decades out of the game, what to consider when your whole life is ahead of you, but you feel paralyzed from making the life you want. Slate Plus members will hear Prudie, Carta and Grace discuss a letter writer who is wondering how to handle a cousin who wants to be the family peacemaker, and another letter from a mom who can’t decide if she should tell her children that their friend is in a psychiatric hospital. Not yet a member? Sign up at Slate.com/PrudiePod. Email: [email protected] Production by Phil Surkis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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You're listening to this week's excerpt from the Dear Prudence

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podcast.

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0:39.2

Dear Prudence, Dear Prudence, Dear Prudence. Dear Prudence. Dear Prudence. Do you think that I should contact him again?

0:54.0

Help.

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Thanks.

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Thank you. Hello and as always I am your host dear prudence also known as Daniel

1:13.8

Mallory Orteberg with me in the studio this week I have two guests both of whom have

1:18.6

already laughed at me more than I feel comfortable with Cardamoneer and Ignat's award-winning cartoonist living in Ann Arbor, Michigan.

1:27.0

Hello?

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Hi, she lives with her spouse, her best friend Carolyn, and a rhizograph machine. I realized as I read that it kind of

1:34.8

looks like those are three ways of describing the same thing. Oh yeah

1:39.7

absolutely my my beautiful resograph machine spouse, Carolyn.

1:45.0

The other person with me in the studio today is Grace Labury,

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