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Big Mood, Little Mood with Daniel M. Lavery

Dear Prudence: The “Line in the Sand” Edition

Big Mood, Little Mood with Daniel M. Lavery

Slate Podcasts

Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 8 February 2017

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

First off, some cold hard truth from Prudence: it never works to have a chore wheel. Then, onto your questions. Should I confront an acquaintance if I think he may be cutting himself? Then, my boyfriend’s business partner is a horrible house guest and stays with us all the time. How can I cope with this? My sister thinks my family’s homophobic, but we just don’t like her racist girlfriend. And, how can I be a good friend to someone who hates being single? Vice Canada columnist Sarah Hagi joins Prudence this week. Hear back episodes of Prudence at Slate.com/Prudiepod.


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0:00.0

You're listening ad-free on Amazon Music.

0:03.6

You're listening to this week's excerpt from the Dear Prudence podcast.

0:07.1

To get the full-length members' only version every week, join Slate Plus at slate.com slash prudipod.

0:17.9

Dear Prudence.

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Dear Prudence.

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Dear Prudence. Dear Prudence. Dear Prudence. Dear Prudy. Dear Prudence Dear Prudence Dear Prudence

0:21.5

Dear Prudence

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Dear Prudence

0:22.6

Dear Prudy

0:23.6

Do you think that I should contact him again?

0:27.6

Help

0:28.6

Thanks

0:29.6

Thanks Welcome back to Dear Prudence once again, and as always, I am Mallory Ortberg, also known as Dear Prudence.

0:48.4

With us in the studio today is our guest, Sarah Hockey, who I'm very excited to get to introduce to you. But first,

0:55.6

I'm going to declare a moratorium on two types of questions that I simply cannot answer more than

1:02.3

once. There are two questions that I get, I would say, reasonably often. I would say they

1:07.9

compose anywhere between 5 and 10 percent of the mailbag. They are almost always

1:15.0

from people in heterosexual relationships or marriages, usually long-term ones, and they fall into

1:22.1

one of two categories. One is, I am married to someone and everything in our relationship is good except for the division of chores in the house and it's making me miserable.

1:34.5

And the other one is, again, usually not always a heterosexual relationship. My spouse of so many years has been putting on weight and I'm no longer attracted to them.

1:44.8

And I don't know what to say or do.

1:46.8

And I get these questions a lot and I don't have a different answer for them each time.

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