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Welcome to Dear Prudence, I'm your Prudence, Jenae Desmond Harris.

It's wedding weekend slate, so today I'll be answering letters from readers with dilemmas

about whether parents are obligated to pay for weddings they don't support for whatever reason.

Whether a mean sister should get to attend an allotment, and whether you're really invited

if you don't have a paper invitation in hand.

Here to help me out today is Shayna Roth.

She's a producer for the Waves Slates podcast about feminism and gender.

She also helps with research, production, and development on several other shows.

In between all of this, she co-hosts the weekly series and podcasts, Mitch Mash.

Since we're doing an all-wetting episode, I asked her to come prepared to talk about three things

you might want to know about her experience or her perspective in this area.

Okay, Shayna, first one.

Okay, so I took this as sort of like three things that I learned from my own wedding,

which one is have the food that you want to have,

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