What makes a hero? Fearlessness in the face of danger?

Hair that's perfect after flying through a burning building?

Colorful tights?

Or is it making everything possible, working tirelessly to make the financial year end?

No thought for anything but the success of your clients.

Yes! The hero is you, accountants and bookkeepers everywhere. And QuickBooks

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Welcome to Dear Prudence. I'm your guest Prudence, Kristen Mineser. I host a couple of other podcasts,

including Buy the Book and How to Be Fine. Be sure to check those out if you love self-help books,

hate self-help books, or want advice on how to be okay-ish rather than perfect. Today, we will

be answering your relationship questions. When is it the

right time to start dating in a new city? What's the best way to tell your boyfriend that you'd

prefer a lone time when you're sick? And how do you let your friend know you're tired of listening

to them complain about their job? Here to help me out is John Collin Hill, the host of Vox's Explain It to

me. JQ's expansive media career has also included creating and hosting WAMUs through the Cracks

podcast and serving as senior producer at Vox, WAMU, and NPR's 1A. JQ, welcome back to the show. We're so pumped to have you here.

Hello, I'm happy to be here. I cannot wait to answer some questions. Oh my gosh. And the listeners

cannot wait to hear your answers because you are so smart, you are so insightful. And you're going to

give the best advice today.

Oh, thank you.

Now, before we get started, I would like to ask you a question that we ask all of our guests.

What is one piece of unsolicited advice you would give to the world unprompted?

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