Welcome to Dear Prudence, I am your guest prudence.

Today we'll be offering advice to a neighbor turned last minute babysitter whose work has gone

unappreciated a widower whose family won't stop judging his new girlfriend a friend

friend worried that they'll be cut off every time they make a mistake in their relationships, and a reader

struggling to balance time with their husband and extended family.

Here to help me out is actress and comedian Sashir is a maida. Sashir was a cast member on NBC's Saturday Night Live for four seasons,

hosted her own stand-up specials, The First Woman, and Pizza Mind,

and has starred in shows including Woke and Home Economics.

She is the co-host of the weekly

podcast Best Friends and a CLU Celebrity Ambassador for Women's Rights and plays

Jennifer Kale in the recent Marvel spin-off show Agatha all along. So Sheer

welcome to the show.

Thank you for being here.

Thank you for having me.

It's my pleasure.

I'm so excited, but before we get started,

I would like to ask you a question that we ask all of our guests which is what is

one piece of unsolicited advice that you would give to the world unprompted.

Okay I don't know this is like a thing I've been ranting about recently, so maybe it applies, but I would say let's stop consuming so much violence.

I don't think it's good for our brains.

I don't think it's good for our livelihood.

And really, that's, I mean, I guess maybe that's also a advice for people who are creating things like TV and movies and videos and such.

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