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Dear Prudence | I Found My Happily Married Mom’s Profile on a BDSM Dating Site. Help!

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4.22K Ratings

🗓️ 30 August 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Nadira Goffe (Slate culture writer) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about what to do when your girlfriend refuses to return library books in the name of self-love, whether it’s worth admitting to your partner that you sometimes break your not-so-strict vegan diet for convenience sake, if you need to tell your dad that you caught your mom on a BDSM dating site, and how to prepare for a visit from parents you are sure will body-shame you. Want more Dear Prudence? Subscribe to Slate Plus to immediately unlock weekly bonus episodes. Plus, you’ll access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts by clicking “Try Free” at the top of our show page. Or, visit slate.com/prudie-plus to get access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Se’era Spragley Ricks, Daisy Rosario, and Jenée Desmond-Harris, with help from Maura Currie and Anuli Ononye. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome to Dear Prudence, I'm your Prudence, Janay Desmond Harris.

0:35.0

Today we'll be discussing what to do when your girlfriend refuses to return library books

0:40.0

in the name of self-love.

0:42.0

Whether it's worth admitting to your partner that you sometimes break your not-so-strict vegan

0:46.3

diet for convenience sake, and whether you need to tell your dad that you caught your mom on

0:50.9

a BDSM dating site. Here to help me out is Slate

0:53.6

Associate Culture writer Nadera Gough. She's written about so many things

0:57.1

including Breaking's debut at the 2024 Summer Olympics, how hair and makeup

1:01.0

designers work to glow up Richardson actors and Beyonces joline cover.

1:06.0

You can also hear her on many other slate podcasts like I see why am I

1:10.0

and culture gap fest.

1:11.0

Madera welcome.

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