Welcome to Dear prudence. I'm your prudence, Janay Desmond Harris. Today we'll be answering

letters about what to do with wedding photos that include a sibling's ex, how to break it

to your dad that he's not invited to walk you down the aisle, and whether it's okay to

tell loved ones you never want to vacation with them. Here to help me out is Caroline Moss.

She's an author and the host of the podcast, she thinks just bought it where she talks about

what she bought and what you might need to buy next. It was born after she started tweeting

about all her weird Amazon finds and purchases, and it will make you want to buy a lot of stuff.

She used to read the advice column asking for her friends, so she actually has a little experience

with what we're doing here today. Hey, Caroline, thank you for being here. Hey, Janay, thank you

for having me. I'm so excited to be here. So before we get started, I want to ask you to give one

piece of completely unsolicited advice on any topic you'd like to talk about. Okay, I have

thought about this, and I'm going to land on a very piece of like solid, just get it done

advice, which is in March, if you can book your holiday travel. Wow. It is so much cheaper.

You have to be a special kind of person to do that. Like your real advice is to be an organized

person, get your life together, get better at decision making. That's a tall ask. I'm sure it

works well. It doesn't mean you have to be super organized. I just want you to be motivated by

a lower price point. Okay. And I have only had good luck booking in March because the thing is

is that people, a lot of people think when they book in like August or September that they're early,

they're not early. Right. Because when people start mentioning holidays in August, I'm like,

what are you talking about? Are people who start talking about Halloween costumes in summer?

I'm just like, you're getting ahead of yourself. What are you doing? But those are the people

who have a Halloween costume. I'm not there yet. But what I can do is I will book a flight and

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