Welcome to Dear Prudence. I'm your Prudence.

Jene Desmond Harris. We're doing something a little different today. Instead of an episode of Dear Prudence, I want to share with

you an episode of Choice Words with Samantha B. It's from our friends at Lemonada Media.

So you probably know Sam B from her time as a hilarious news correspondent on the Daily

show or maybe from her own show Full Frontal with Samantha B. Or perhaps you know her from her

live show, Your Favorite Woman, which she's been touring all over the country.

In her podcast Choice Words, Sam sits down with people she admires to examine the biggest

choices they've made in their lives and the ripple effects those decisions have. Because she's not just pro-choice, she's pro-choices.

The episode you're about to hear is with the one and only reality TV star Karamo Brown of Queerai

Fame. They talk about the biggest choices he's made in his life,

his unconventional journey to fatherhood, and how he learned to stop living in fear.

As you're enjoying the listen, make sure to follow Choice Words on whatever app you're listening to right now.

The more you listen, the better choices you'll make.

Money back guarantee. Good thing it's free. Now here's the episode and host Sam B.

It can be so hard to choose to be positive when the world

can be so cruel, so challenging. It's really hard to remind yourself to lean and

to love when so many other things need your attention.

Thinking about parenthood.

Parenthood can be so overwhelming on its easiest days and it can be words that I'm not even sure I'm allowed to say on this network on its very worst days.

My husband and I we have three kids, but before that we had two two kids two full-time jobs then we decided to add a third child

And at that time our biggest concern wasn't space.

I mean, it should have been.

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