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Dear Life Kit: When money makes relationships murky

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4.33.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Behavioral scientist Wendy De La Rosa and personal finance expert Katie Gatti Tassin answer murky money questions from Dear Life Kit listeners.
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0:00.0

There's a lot of news happening.

0:02.3

You want to understand it better, but let's be honest, you don't want it to be your entire life either.

0:07.0

Well, that's sort of like our show, here and now anytime.

0:09.8

Every weekday on our podcast, we talk to people all over the country about everything from political analysis to climate resilience, video games.

0:17.2

We even talk about dumpster diving on this show.

0:19.7

Check out Here and now anytime, a daily

0:21.6

podcast from NPR and WBUR. You're listening to Life Kit from NPR.

0:31.9

Hey, it's Mariel. It's hard for a lot of us to talk about money because of how we were raised, because we're told it's impolite conversation, because we don't know how to communicate with people who have a lot more or a lot less money than we do, and for a million other reasons.

0:49.2

And yet, in the astute words of Wu-Tang Clan, cash rules everything around me.

0:55.4

Money is the hidden participant at every dinner table.

1:00.2

Like every major life change that we go through, we effectively have to have a money discussion.

1:07.3

When someone has a child, right, that comes with a financial burden.

1:11.6

When someone gets sick, that comes with a financial burden.

1:13.6

When you get married, that comes with a financial transition.

1:16.6

When you move countries, when you get a new job.

1:19.6

Wendy De La Rosa is a behavioral scientist and an assistant professor of marketing

1:23.6

at the University of Pennsylvania's Wharton School.

1:26.6

And she says in these moments, yeah, we tend to shy away from money conversations, but she'd

1:32.3

like us to have some of those.

1:34.4

And so would Katie Gaddy Tossin, host of the Money with Katie show and author of the book

1:39.4

Rich Girl Nation.

1:41.2

Katie says, look, we're all learning how to make better financial decisions for ourselves

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