Dear Diary: Am I a Good Kisser? with Tutti del Monte
The Refined Collective Podcast
Kat Harris
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 23 March 2022
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
This week my bestie, Tutti del Monte, is returning for another Dear Diary episode. This time, instead of spending the full episode reading old diary entries, we’re chatting about things we chat about in real life: how to know if you’re a bad kisser and how we define sex differently. Plus, we talk about if I’m still waiting for marriage to have sex and Tutti’s current pause on sex in her relationship.
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| 0:12.0 | This podcast is designed to hold space for honest conversations. From purity culture to faith, |
| 0:19.6 | sexuality, relationships, identity, culture, deconstruction, and more. My hope is to look |
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