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The One You Feed

Dean Sluyter on Fearing Less

The One You Feed

Eric Zimmer

Education, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Buddhism, Mental Health

4.62.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 February 2019

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

In This Interview, Dean Sluyter and I Discuss…

  • His book, Fear Less: Living Beyond Fear, Anxiety, Anger, and Addiction
  • Right View and how it relates to having less fear in your life
  • How right view is always liberating
  • Asking, “does it help?”
  • “One mustn’t assume burdens that God doesn’t lay upon us. The state of worry is not itself meritorious.” CS Lewis
  • The problem with trying to control your mind
  • Transcendental Meditation
  • Hanging out in tasklessness
  • The open space of awareness
  • How thought doesn’t have to go away in order to meditate
  • Relax your grip, and relax back into yourself
  • It doesn’t grip you, it has no power to do that. You grip it.
  • What it means to relax at the moment of contact
  • Relax into it, stop the resistance of it
  • Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional
  • suffering = pain x resistance


Dean Sluyter Links

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Youtube

Twitter


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Any effort to create a non-agitated state of mind is itself a form of agitation.

0:14.8

Welcome to the One You Feed.

0:16.8

Throughout time, great thinkers have recognized the importance of the thoughts we have,

0:21.4

quotes like garbage in, garbage out, or you are what you think,

0:25.8

ring true, and yet for many of us our thoughts don't strengthen or empower us.

0:31.2

We tend toward negativity, self-pity, jealousy, or fear. We see what we don't have,

0:37.3

instead of what we do, we think things that hold us back and dampen our spirit.

0:42.4

But it's not just about thinking, our actions matter. It takes conscious, consistent,

0:47.5

and creative effort to make a life worth living. This podcast is about how other people keep

0:52.8

themselves moving in the right direction, how they feed their good wolf.

1:10.8

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1:15.4

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1:19.9

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1:24.2

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1:28.0

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1:32.4

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1:36.8

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1:43.6

Thanks for joining us. Our guest on this episode is Dean Slider, an award-winning author who has

1:48.6

taught meditation and awakenings since 1970. Dean leads workshops, talks, and retreats throughout

1:54.6

the US and beyond, and has been featured in the New York Times, USA Today, in style, New York magazine,

2:01.9

O, the Oprah Magazine, and many others. He is also on the faculty of the West Coast Riders

2:07.3

conferences. On this episode, Eric and Dean discuss his book Fear Less, Living Beyond Fear,

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