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The Best of You

Dealing With Fools

The Best of You

Dr. Alison Cook

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9957 Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2026

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to The Best of You Every Day. Today’s Scripture is Proverbs 26:4–5 Go Deeper: Episode 1: What is Narcissism Really? Read: Gaslighting & the Bible: How to Respond When Someone is Manipulating You When Narcissism Comes to Church, by Chuck Degroat Follow Dr. Alison on Instagram ⁠⁠@dralisoncook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Sign up⁠⁠⁠ for Dr. Alison’s free weekly email for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, I'm Dr. Allison.

0:03.4

Today's scripture offers us a wiser way of being human as we step into the day.

0:12.0

Today's passage is short and sweet, but really it's more short and blunt.

0:17.2

It's also strangely comforting because it names something so many of us struggle with.

0:21.7

How do I respond to someone who is unreasonable, reactive, or committed to misunderstanding me?

0:27.6

Today's reading comes from Proverbs 26, 4 through 5.

0:31.6

Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you yourself will be just like him.

0:36.9

Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will will be just like him. Answer a fool according to his folly,

0:39.2

or he will be wise in his own eyes. This is confusing. I had to read it again a couple of times.

0:46.0

There are two proverbs back to back that seem to directly contradict each other, but this is the

0:50.8

beauty of wisdom literature. Wisdom literature is such an interesting part of scripture.

0:55.5

It's not giving us a prescription or formula.

0:58.4

It's not a one-size-fits-all command.

1:00.9

It's teaching us something deeper.

1:03.4

Discernment.

1:04.4

In other words, Proverbs is less interested in handing us a script

1:07.7

and more interested in shaping us into a person

1:10.5

who can see clearly, who can

1:12.7

be wise in a lot of different situations. So let's unpack what these verses are naming.

1:19.1

There are two dangers when you're dealing with foolishness. And when we're talking about foolishness,

1:23.4

we mean behavior that is reactive, irrational, arrogant, baiting, manipulative, or contemptuous.

1:29.5

The kind of behavior that doesn't actually want understanding, because it's not playing by

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