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rachmet allah lahyhoo about a caa to welcome to this episode of dealing with difficulty. As a

welcome to this episode of dealing with difficulty,

as our children grow up, we don't realize that they go through changes at times

and they go through phases, Many of us would probably become upset with these

children to say they are naughty and they perhaps are unruly and so, without noticing that there is a certain time frame within which

they are growing from being a child to an adult, and these teenage or adolescent years are not easy to deal with.

The difficulty of having children in that time frame or that period of time

is such that Allah Almighty wants us to be patient with them while teaching

them that which is their duty the minute they are they achieve what we would know as Boulog in the Arabic language or maturity,

the age of maturity, when their duties unto Allah become proper duties.

When a person is young, we teach them to pray,

if they pray or they don't pray,

it's not written for them or against them.

As they grow older, it's getting written for them or against them as they grow older.

It's getting them used to what is going to be the obligation the day you hit puberty.

So it's my duty, it's my duty as a parent to guide them from an early age.

Many of us forget to praise the children as they grow older.

When they do something wrong, we quick to yell at them,

we're quick to say things to them, we're quick to correct them.

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