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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Dealing with Conflict in Relationships (Especially During COVID!!)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2020

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

2020 has brought a lot of hard things…it’s increased pressure and conflict in relationships.  Today’s caller wants to know what do you do when you find yourself plunged into the season of FALL in a relationship? Fall is the season of conflict and communication – and it seems a lot of people are jumping right into it with all the stress and pressure this year has brought. Conflict in Relationships In this episode we cover: What happens when you feel like you’re all of a sudden navigating conflict in a relationship that wasn’t there before? How to see conflict as a positive part of the relationship. What are the signs that you’re in FALL in a relationship? What does it look like to “do the work” of the season of fall? Recognizing passivity in my conflict style. Recognizing past triggers vs. present problems. And so much more! So tune in to this episode of the Love + Relationships Podcast and subscribe to the show by clicking on the button below, and leave us your rating and review! SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY –  iHEART RADIO Connect with today’s sponsor: ISSUU.com/podcast Love + Relationships Podcast Notes: For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out: Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing? Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life. And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,

0:23.4

and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating, singleness,

0:29.5

and marriage. For those of you who don't know me or are tuning in for the first time, I'm a licensed

0:34.5

professional counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.

0:39.0

I also run the Relationship Advice blog True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the message

0:44.9

that healthy people make healthy relationships.

0:48.5

If you've tuned into the podcast before, you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people

0:53.5

call in or write in with their

0:55.1

relationship questions, and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized

1:00.1

answers. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it via email

1:05.3

or voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page, true lovedates.com slash love and relationships.

1:13.8

And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get started.

1:23.6

Today on the podcast, we have joining us Deborah from Canada.

1:28.7

Hi, Debra.

1:30.1

Hi, Debra.

1:31.0

We have the same name.

1:32.1

I know.

1:33.0

I don't know that I've interviewed another Debra on the podcast.

1:36.8

We could just swap roles.

1:39.2

Maybe I should be asking you some questions.

1:42.3

Oh, I need to study up on all of your books in order to answer

1:48.0

them. It's so great to connect with you. So what do you have on your mind today? Yeah, I firstly, I just

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