Hello, you guys. Welcome to another episode of the SIP. I'm Riley Adams. Of course, joined by Lizzy Gordon. And thank you so much for being here.

Today, I mean, wow. Okay, first, I guess the first thing we have to address is, and I hate to do this because Trisha's friendship means more to me than a headlining story on this podcast. I hate that we're a podcast that does hot topics. And I've somehow become a hot topic that I feel I have to address in some sort of way.

Because I've seen I've been flooded on all elements of social media regarding this situation and Trisha is mad at us right now. And I guess the only.

I'm confused. I was taken back a little bit and I understand like she's had drama with Jeffrey and hair by J who has hair by J obviously said horrific things that I don't stand by I don't support obviously I support Trisha over hair by J like I've never followed this man. I don't know this man. I've met him once in passing.

Yeah. And the fact that I'm so heavily involved with this really does break my heart because I love Trisha so much. I consider her one of my closest friends. We see her more than I see really anyone beside you because you come over weekly for this podcast. And I guess at the end of the day, I truly wish she would have come to me as a friend.

And if she was hurting like the way that she is and talked it out with me. And I wish that it wouldn't have played out on the internet like this. I just am really honestly confused because I see her all of the time.

Even after the last time Jeffrey was physically on this podcast, I was at her house and we had a wonderful loving time. And I understand maybe it's hard for her to express her actual feelings towards Jeffrey to us or the gravity in which she's feeling feelings towards Jeffrey when she knows were specifically friendly with Jeffrey.

And maybe it's hard for her to like ask me to cut him off. But at the same time, I just I can't read someone's mind. And I feel like as an adult, I have two other adult friends that got in an altercation a year ago.

And maybe it is my fault for never having asked her where she truly stands or wants me to stand. I just I felt as though that was like their lane. I never hung out. I think one time I was with Jeffrey Shane, Trish and myself together.

Like they're they were independently friends and they're both independently my friends. And like like I said, I see Trish all the time. I love her. And I wish she would have just hit me up personally so that and so that we could have dealt with this situation.

And I feel awful. I feel awful that I contributed to her feeling this way because she's obviously scared and hurting and doesn't want to be in the position she's in. I don't believe. Yeah.

I have this podcast and trust me, there's nothing I would rather do than just go about business as normal and have a fun. And handle it privately.

Well, and just like I don't want to have drama on the internet, Trish's friendship to me means so much more than the internet. Yeah. And so I'm just bummed out by it, honestly.

Yeah, I mean, I have a lot of love for Trish too. I don't know her personally by any means just from our one exchange on the show. And like since I met her in person, I've had nothing but nice things to say about her and I'm a fan of her and I'm a fan of her content and what she does.

And I just I find it deeply regrettable that something that we put out that was intended to be lighthearted and fun and commentary. Yeah, calls her so much pain.

And I guess that's the I think the reason for the confusion is that this came after like we were talking about Jeffrey and Kanye, which I mean we talk about hot topics on the show. The whole world was talking about it.

I'm not justifying it like I guess it is to her feelings are valid. However, she's feeling is 100% valid and Shane did reach out to her. I wanted to kind of let things play out for a second because I really I learned a lot last year. Like I jumped on some things too quickly last year.

And even when the internet is coming at you, I'm still a person in regards to any drama on the internet. I think it's healthy to like take a step back, think about it, breathe about it.

Like just because something's coming at you doesn't mean I necessarily need to react. I'd react publicly really. Yeah. And I and bottom line I love Trish so much. I wish her all the happiness in the world, even if she chooses not to be in our lives.

And I think she's iconic. I'll always think she's iconic. I have so so so much love for her. And I guess that is where I'll leave it for now. I'm never going to talk badly about her on the internet.

Yeah. I hope we mend our friendship and I hope things are okay. And we can talk about how we're feeling together in person in real time eventually.

I just want to echo your sentiment like we love you Trish. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I don't understand by anything negative that was ever said about you. And I continue to love and support you.

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