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www Muslim Central.com forward slash donate. May Allah make it easy I know Muslims who have left

Islam who were born Muslims a few of them and that's a cheap excuse you, ignorance like I say, lack of faith, lack of

a man, that's what happens. I would like to think, set yourself a date beyond which you can get married to him without his folks, it's easier this

way if he is independent from them.

The problem comes when he depends on them for his living,

then I don't have a solution.

It's difficult.

But if he's independent, he can be kind to them, be nice to them,

he can get it done without them and he can let them know,

listen I'm doing this and they can kick him out, they can do whatever, but you just be nice and kind.

I know that it's so difficult to say, well for how long should I just be nice and kind to them?

Sometimes it takes a few years, but imagine it takes three years out of another 30, 40 years of marriage,

50 years of marriage, three years was worth the sacrifice.

But the three years when you're going through it seems very, very long.

We pray that Allah make it easy for you.

And you know what, if I had it my way, I would would actually I wouldn't mind calling on those folks and proposing on your behalf

I wouldn't mind I don't mind I can get it done. We in

shawlah later on I get the details and in shawlah we can at least pay them a

visit or give them a phone call and let them know listen this is who I am and

I'm speaking on behalf of so and

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