DAVID MEESSEN | Dating Advice for Men in the Modern Era
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9K Ratings
🗓️ 2 May 2023
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
I think we can all agree that dating isn’t what it used to be even 20 years ago. With the rise of hook-up culture, extreme feminism, woke ideology, and a general increase in degeneracy today, it can feel impossible at times to find the right woman, let alone start a relationship with her.
My guest today is David Meessen, a dating coach for men, who has helped hundreds of men overcome confidence issues, improve communication, and attract high-value women. Today, David and I talk about the rise in resentment towards women (and how that doesn’t help your cause), why your intent is more important than your tactics when approaching women, how to become verbally agile, showing proof of who you are over your promises, why needs not being met is the single greatest factor in emotional insecurity, and whether it’s better to win over her brain or her heart.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
- Why dating has gotten MORE difficult
- Why are many guys afraid to approach beautiful women?
- Most men care too much and hinder their own self-expression
- You can’t just talk to the best looking women
- Dating advice for introverts
- The scientific difference between introverts and extroverts
- We need to be diligent and patient when choosing our partner
- You have to be able to disagree with attractive women
- The importance of finding someone who is aligned with your most important values
- Knowing when it is better to separate
- Some women want a kiss on the first date
- Men need to communicate their personality effectively on the first date
- Determine incompatibility as quickly as possible
- Dating is not a “negotiation”
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| 0:00.0 | I think we can all agree that dating isn't what it used to be even 20 years ago. |
| 0:04.8 | With the rise of hookup culture and extreme feminism and woke ideology and just a general |
| 0:10.5 | increase in degeneracy today, it can feel impossible at times to find the right woman, |
| 0:15.5 | let alone start a relationship with her. |
| 0:17.8 | My guest today is Dabby Mason, a dating coach for men who has helped hundreds of men overcome |
| 0:23.3 | confidence issues, improve their communication and ultimately attract high value women. |
| 0:28.0 | Today, Dabby and I talk about the rise in resentment towards women and how that doesn't |
| 0:32.5 | really help your cause. |
| 0:34.3 | Why your intent is more important than your tactics when approaching women, how to become |
| 0:39.4 | verbally agile, showing proof of who you are over just your promises, why needs not |
| 0:44.8 | being met is the single greatest factor in emotional insecurity and whether it's better |
| 0:49.9 | to win over her brain or her heart. |
| 0:52.8 | Guys, if you're already hitched and you're already married, this one can still serve you |
| 0:57.0 | because there's a lot of insight that will apply to you as well. |
| 0:59.8 | Enjoy. |
| 1:00.8 | You're a man of action. |
| 1:01.8 | You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears and boldly charge your own path. |
| 1:06.1 | When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. |
| 1:10.1 | You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. |
| 1:15.6 | This is your life, this is who you are, this is who you will become. |
| 1:19.6 | At the end of the day and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man. |
| 1:24.8 | Gentlemen, what is going on? |
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