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Today, Explained

Dating sucks right now

Today, Explained

Vox

Daily News, Politics, News

4.49.5K Ratings

🗓️ 16 August 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

But it doesn't have to. Myisha Battle, a sexologist and host of KCRW’s How's Your Sex Life?, tells us how to move beyond the apps. This episode was produced by Hady Mawajdeh, edited by Amina Al-Sadi with help from Lissa Soep, fact-checked by Matt Collette, engineered by Patrick Boyd, and hosted by Noel King. Transcript at vox.com/today-explained-podcast Support Today, Explained by becoming a Vox Member today: http://www.vox.com/members Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Dating is terrible now according to survey data and apps are part of the problem

0:05.0

according to these people that producer Heidi Muagdi met on the streets of

0:08.0

Fort Worth, Texas.

0:10.0

It's just so superficial I think it's just like you're swiping on someone with like their only looks

0:16.4

You're not looking at like who the person is everyone on a dating app is trying to paint a picture of who they are the best

0:22.4

Image of who they are, the best image of who they are. You are trying to get

0:25.2

someone else to notice things about you that you want them to see.

0:29.7

I hate the small talk and I hate the ghosting and then I just find that guys they think

0:35.0

that there's always someone better. Fort Worth is not alone. We all hate the apps.

0:38.9

Why are we all on the apps? I wish so badly I could block myself from the App Store of being able to

0:44.3

reinstall these apps. That's what I won. Coming up on today explained

0:48.2

tender, okay-cupid, hinge and etc they aren't working anymore that's the consensus so what's the plan?

0:59.3

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1:04.6

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1:37.6

Support for the show comes from into the mix, a Ben and Jerry's podcast about Joy and Justice, produced with Box Creative. Along the Mississippi River between Baton Rouge and New Orleans, there is a stretch of land

1:45.4

nicknamed Cancer Alley because the cancer rate is more than seven times higher than the national

1:51.6

average,

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