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Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I finally outside and not hiding. I feel like I've

started every episode for the past two weeks with explaining how I'm recording because my entire

family is here, but I'm finally I have some peace and quiet. I'm outside and I get to chat with you.

So there's a few different things you want me to talk about. So I'm just going to get started

because we have a lot to cover before our episode with Ariel. Someone wanted to me to talk about

marriage within the first year of a relationship. Well, this is so contextual. I don't know how old

this person is, but I think it's really important to know where the two of you stand.

When it comes to marriage, I remember in the past, I had dated someone who was just like kind of

like, which shutter at the conversation of marriage as if it was like something so far in the

future and they were like 28. And to me, that kind of freaked me out because I was like, so you're

not going to want to, like, you know what I mean? It just sounded like they are their trajectory.

It was like a 35 for marriage, whereas my head was just not in that place. And so I feel like

you need to make sure that at least your partner is on the same page about it and that like they

wouldn't be with you unless they had considered it at least. Because if that's not the case,

then I feel like it is a bit red flaggy. Someone else wanted me to talk about

they said after the craze over the rules, it's easy for us to understand that holding off on having

sex with the new person is important for so many reasons, but how to do that can be tricky.

I feel they said I feel like it's a fine line between making the guys as a woman speaking,

feel rejected and making your intentions too obvious or emotional if that makes sense,

just a thought. So I guess their question is like, how do you hold off on having sex without

making it look like you're holding off on having sex? Obviously this bird decides to fly

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