Men who absolutely need to go out cannot be alone who like to be on the scene is a

red flag and it's not to say that they can't have fun and they can't let loose and

you know have a good time. But if there's someone who's going out Monday, Tuesday,

Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and they're finding day parties, club parties,

birthday parties, finding anywhere that they can be to be on the scene, this is a red flag.

And this is a red flag, especially when you're exclusively dating them.

Sure there may be a time in a month life where he wants to go out a lot and

wants to meet a woman and that's totally normal but once you are together is he's still doing that

is he's still wanting to always be on the scene. Those men do have a higher chance

of being involved in things like alcohol, substance abuse, cheating,

or he could be getting himself in situations where he's spending excessive amounts of money,

and it just tells you a little bit about his character in terms of always wanting attention, wanting to be seen, or wanting to be in that social dating pool.

Another red flag to consider is how this man speaks about his

previous relationships. How does he talk about his exes? Now when you date this is

something that usually does come up.

Typically people do like to have conversations about what happened in their

previous relationships. But is this man talking negatively about all of his exes? Is he talking

negatively about his exes in general? It's okay to talk about things that didn't

work out or you know maybe talk about character flaws or things that he may have missed, but is he

degrading this person? Is he name calling this person? This is going to say a lot about his character.

In addition to that, is he talking excessively about his ex?

And this is a red flag.

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