Dating in your 30s: butterflies = toxic flying worms
The WoMed
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4.4 • 1K Ratings
🗓️ 11 November 2022
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
TW: weight and body image
On top of Danielle dating on national television, both of your hosts are now dating in their 30s, which is uncharted territory for Jac. So, this episode is all about dating — whether it be IRL, on the apps, or on a popular television show, they cover it all! D opens up about her best efforts dating on the apps, and Jac emphasizes the importance of giving yourself time to heal and grieve a past relationship before jumping in to a new one. She also shares a tip she heard that said finding a long-term partner is similar to finding a business partner when it comes to the qualities you should be looking for. They also cover how different they find dating in their 30s, as opposed to in their 20s, as the type of men they look for changed with the increase of self-confidence that comes with age. Plus, let’s be honest...more people can afford therapy in their 30s, and that’s a bonus for everyone involved. However, they don’t want you to think it’s all sunshine and roses, as they dive in to the insecurities that come up still while dating. They share their ideal first dates, and how awkward first dates aren’t necessarily a bad thing! They also touch on toxic masculinity and how we may be perpetuating toxic archetypes, the pressure of having kids as you get older, and freezing your eggs (something that interests them both). Lastly, Jac leaves us with a horrible first date experience she had recently. Hey, all good Jac… on to the next!!
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:18.6 | Hi. Hi. How are you? |
| 0:38.2 | It's Friday. So I am just, I'm doing Grant. How are you? I just, I just have to talk about this because I felt like my mind exploded when I found it. The refillable travel size perfume containers. Yes. Do you see me post about this? |
| 0:38.9 | I did. |
| 0:41.6 | And I need to know every detail about this. |
| 0:46.2 | This is my DM and the DM because so many people are like, can you link it again? |
| 0:47.1 | Can you link it again? |
| 0:51.3 | And I'm like, just look a refillable perfume container on Amazon. |
| 0:52.8 | Yeah, literally, people. Or you know, link or click it when I link at the first time. |
| 0:57.3 | But anyways, no, it's so great because, you know, especially if you're doing like |
| 1:02.8 | carry-ons and like you, especially do not like to check a bag. |
| 1:08.2 | You like to live off of your carry-on. |
| 1:09.8 | You are a minimalist packer which |
| 1:11.1 | i strive to be perfume always gets me because i love my perfume so much and i just love the smell |
| 1:19.2 | that like i had to find something that was smaller and like these things come in these really |
| 1:24.8 | beautiful little like chic kind of vintagey looking little travel size things. |
| 1:30.7 | And all you have to do is take the top off of your perfume thing. |
| 1:34.4 | So that little male spigot point and jam it down. |
| 1:39.9 | God, I wish you guys could see what Danielle is doing right now. |
| 1:42.9 | You jam it down on the top of it. |
| 1:44.4 | It looks very dirty. |
| 1:46.0 | And it sprays up into the chamber. |
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