Hey guys, it's Tammy. This is part three of the episode. If you haven't listened to part one or part two, make sure you do that before you listen to this one. Enjoy.

I agree with you. You don't off your pant and tell them, my mom did this to my dad. My dad did this to my mom. My family generation is cursed.

Nobody needs to know that shit. I feel like families are drawn the line.

I feel like once you start getting to a certain level of relating with a man,

in order for him to even feel like, you know what, this is a real bitch.

Yeah. Niggers respect real to. You're not saying every nigger that you have met has hurt you. Because now you're a problem. Why is everybody? Yeah, yeah, yeah. What's wrong with you? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're showing red flags. Yeah. However, there have been maybe one, maybe two that have mishandled me.

Yeah.

They didn't know what they had.

Those were the early stages of my relationships. Yeah. However, going forward, my standards are high. Yeah. This is what I like. Yeah. I'm open to listening to hearing so far as I feel like you have my best interest at heart. I feel like being vulnerable is not a weakness.

It's a strength.

And the right person is going to handle that with care.

They're going to see it.

And I think as well, like even to your point, right, if you even think about the things

that you're talking about, if you had the man say that, like, would that be attractive

to you? Because I think

being vulnerable at a certain stage will be like, okay, now I feel like I'm getting to a place with this person that I wasn't at before. Because you know, there's some people, they just like to tell you everything from day one. It's kind of a bit like, this is too much. But at the same time, If I met a guy when the first day,

you're telling me every girl that your date has cheated on you.

Sorry, that's unattractive. is too much but at the same time if I met a guy one the first day you're telling me every

every girl that you dated has cheated on you sorry that's unattractive i don't need to know that from day

one you can tell me that later but i don't want to know that from day one because also i'll be

thinking everybody yeah like no so i wouldn't also sit on a date and be like yeah every guy that

i've dated has cheated on me and like yeah they yeah, they've just abused me. They've just used that. I've used me. Like, what the heck? If everyone is cheating on you as a guy, it means that something, you lack emotional awareness. Emotional intelligence. There's something that you are doing. Yeah. That they feel like they have to go and find this love outside. because I'm girl don't remember I know that there's one or two there's some fucked girls however girls are naturally they're lately very like they're loving girls yeah very lovable so what is it about you that's stopping it. I hear it. Anyway, shat is well. Let's go to the dilemma. Let's go to this dilemma. Okay, cool. So, the title of this dilemma is, Am I the Haas... Oh. Hamai Dihaas. Age factor. Age factor. We've been in this country for too long. Amazing.

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