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The King's Hall

Dating, Courtship, and the NCP Singles Mixer

The King's Hall

Brian Sauvé, Dan Berkholder, & Eric Conn

Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91K Ratings

🗓️ 23 May 2025

⏱️ 113 minutes

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Send us a text! In this episode, Brian and Eric talk about the upcoming singles mixer, the problematic dating scene, and what Christians can do about it. They discuss courtship from a biblical perspective, as well as the three weddings that occurred in 2025 from the previous New Christendom Press conference. Finally, we share an interview with Sam & Chase, who met at the 2024 conference, got married the same year, and are expecting their first child. They discuss how best to approac...

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0:00.0

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0:11.3

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0:16.2

Thank you. I'm In 1960, the U.S. birth rate was 23.7 births per 1,000 people.

0:49.7

Today, that number has fallen to 10.74 births per thousand people. Likewise, fertility rates have plummeted.

0:57.7

In 1960, the average number of children per woman was 3.58. In 2023, it's fallen to 1.6,

1:05.8

which is below replacement levels for a society. According to secular researchers, the causes are actually

1:12.4

quite simple to identify. Widespread access to contraceptives, including the birth control pill,

1:18.5

societal acceptance of the murder of children in the womb, women entering the workforce and

1:23.6

pursuing higher education well into their childbearing years, massive inflation, which lessens

1:29.2

the value of money and requires more of it to afford a basic standard of living. Each of these

1:34.5

factors has resulted in fewer marriages, fewer children, and the destruction of the biblical

1:40.0

household, which is the bedrock foundation of any healthy people. And of course, as the old saying

1:45.7

goes, first comes love, then comes marriage, then come the babies in the baby carriage. If people

1:51.0

aren't getting married, the likelihood they have children also diminishes. Going back to

1:55.9

1960, in that year, 72% of American adults were married. In 2023, that number dropped to 51%. In the 1960s,

2:06.4

the average age of a first marriage was 20. Today, it's almost 28. Fewer and fewer people view

2:12.8

marriage as an ideal goal for their lives. Rather than combating this decline, the church started warning against the idol of the family

2:20.4

and began celebrating the gift of singleness.

2:23.7

For example, in John Piper and Wade Grudham's late 1980s book,

2:27.9

recovering biblical manhood and womanhood,

2:30.4

which sought to confront the issues surrounding sexed piety,

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