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Welcome back to I-do Part 2.

It's your celebrity mentor, Kelly Fentman from the Real Housewives of New York, and myself, Alexia, from the Real Housewives of Miami.

Hey, Kelly. Hi, Alexia. How are you? I'm good. Thank you. How are you doing? I'm doing well. This is going to be a very, very interesting conversation with Dr. Hillary Goulter. I cannot wait to ask her some questions. What are you going to ask her? Yes. Well, I have so many questions. I feel like we can do like three, four, five parts to this segment because there's so much to talk about and so much to enw. But for me, it's always been like, why do women get it harder than men when it comes to dating? Why is it okay for dad to date, whoever he wants to date, whatever age they are, doesn't matter. Everything is okay. But then the mom has like a really nice guy that she wants a day and you give her a really hard time.

I have a problem with that. What do you think? Do you think that's a good question? That is a great question. And I know that a lot of people are going to want to know the answer. Yeah. I mean, because, you know, I know that there's a lot to it as well. But I always think it's just so much harder to be a woman, Kelly. like in my next life, I just want to be a guy. I think they have it so much easier. Well, because we're the nurturers. That's why. Yeah, well, I love being a mom and being a nurturer. So do I. But I always feel like the dad, you know, is like we can get away with anything. And if he has money, even more power to him.

It's like he's perfect.

He's great.

There's nothing he does wrong as long as he provides, right? So, okay, okay. Dr. Hillary is here. So let's just dive right into this. Hi, Dr. Hillary. Hi. It's so fun to be here. Thanks for having me. Yeah. So we're going to dive right into this.

And we have a lot of questions for you, Dr. Hillary.

And I'm sure the viewers and the listeners are very... Yeah, so we're going to dive right into this. We have a lot of questions for you, Dr. Hillary.

And I'm sure the viewers and the listeners are very eager to hear what you have to say about this.

So in your professional opinion, I want to know what you think, who has it more difficult?

Is it the dads that have been more difficult when it comes to dating new girls or do the single moms that are dating have it more difficult, you know, as far as when

the kids are involved, right? Like, who do you think has it harder in the dating game when it comes

to dating post-divorce? That's such a juicy question. There's so many levels of that question to consider.

So I'll unpack it.

I mean, I think like at the top of the pyramid is intentionality, right?

It sort of depends on what the dad or the mom is looking for.

If you're looking for dating and casual fun,

maybe men have it a bit easier for all the reasons

in terms of access and the numbers of women available, younger,

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