You're listening to American Shadows, a production of I Heart radio and Grimm and Mild from

Aaron Manky.

A time when newly wedded couples celebrate their life together, whether it be for a quick

getaway or an elaborate vacation.

But in ancient and medieval times, the tradition wasn't always celebratory.

Some historians point to the ancient practice of marriage by capture.

Essentially, a woman was taken by the groom or his family and married off.

The couple was hidden from the bride's family until the marriage was consummated, making

it too late to nullify the union.

If the woman was no longer chased and potentially pregnant, her place in society was tarnished.

Thankfully, over time, alliances and contracts gave way to courtships, which forever changed

the honeymoon.

By the 1800s, many women became trailblazers, selecting both their own groom and their honeymoon

destination.

Theodosha Burr was one of those women.

A prodigy and the apple of father Aaron Burr's eye, Theodosha met plenty of soldiers

and commanding officers during the Revolutionary War.

The family remained close with others who had helped fight against the British, including

Joseph Brandt, a celebrated Mohawk chief.

Theodosha enjoyed the great outdoors, and during a social gathering in New York City during

the late 1700s, Brandt offered to show her the yet unpaid portions of New York State

whenever she wanted to go.

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