Dangerously in Love feat. Nick Viall

LOVERS by Shan

Lemonada Media

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

5.0 • 5.7K Ratings

🗓️ 11 January 2023

⏱️ 53 minutes

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This week's question is : What does it mean to be safe in a relationship? Safety in a relationship looks different for everyone. Our starring guest this week Nick Viall and I talked about a lot, but underneath it, I think this is the core of it… 1) How love hasn’t been safe in the past and 2) how he’s redefining safety within in his new relationship: one that has external threats in the form of public opinion because that’s what fortunately unfortunately happens when two people attempt to share one life"And now Nick is redefining what safety in a relationship means to him. Which leads to asking you “What does romantic safety mean to you?” “Any aha moments after listening to this episode?”Follow Shan: http://instagram.com/shanboodyhttp://tiktok.com/shanboodyhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qngloversfriendspodcast@gmail.comFollow Nick: https://www.instagram.com/nickviall/reels/?hl=enhttps://www.youtube.com/@viallfiles/videosPlease help us in showing love to our incredible sponsors by clicking these links to learn more. Download the ZocDoc app for free. https://www.zocdoc.com/LOVERSFor 10% off during your first 3 months with Ritual, go to https://www.ritual.com/LOVERS For 55% off your Babble subscription.https://www.babble.com/lovers See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	She moved to LA for me, but obviously making friends is important.
0:05.0	And so she met some great group of friends, love her friends, you know, and you could tell
0:10.0	that she was really enjoying her friends. But also like, we were getting less quality time.
0:15.0	So instead I was like, all right, I'm feeling insecure about this.
0:19.0	And I really like to talk to you about it.
0:21.7	And I recognize I might be a little sensitive about this.
0:26.1	So I acknowledge that too.
0:28.7	In my current relationship or a feeling that I value the most in any relationship,
0:33.7	and especially this one, is safety.
0:35.1	I love feeling safe in my relationship. And to me, you know, safety means the ability to communicate with my partner about insecurities and frustrations without the fear of being judged for them. Yes. Or criticize or have them weaponized against you and for in future fights. You were single for a long time.
0:55.9	Yeah.
0:56.3	Most of my 30s.
0:57.4	Was that weaponized against you a bunch?
0:59.7	Oh, yeah.
1:00.4	I mean, before I met Natalie, it was like, who are you to give relationship advice?
1:03.2	You've been single forever.
1:03.9	And once in a while I'll hear that from somebody who's not paying close attention to my
1:06.8	personal life. And now there might be things about my relationship that people might not like or whatever.
1:13.0	But yeah, people are always trying to, you know.
1:15.9	Lovers and friends.
1:18.4	I'm going to take you on a trip, baby.
1:20.1	I don't pretend.
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