Parenting is like I've compared it to having a heroin problem.

When you're high you've never been so high, but when you're miserable you've never been so

miserable. This is the worst.

And this is death, sex, and money.

You're gonna die, clown.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

My husband, I believe, is seeing another woman.

And need to talk about more.

Money don't make my world go round.

I'm reaching out to a higher ground. I'm Anna Sale.

And this is Dan Savage, writer, podcaster, expert on sex.

The joke, the idea was, you know, I would treat straight people and straight sex with the same

contempt and revulsion that straight advice columnist had always treated gay people and

gay sex with I would sneer at straight people and their horrible depressing marginal sex lives and there's

disgusting and perverted sexual practices and then give them some advice after just riffing

and joking about how cky straight sex was.

And when did you realize you were tapping into a real need?

When the male started pouring in.

So Dan Savage started out making fun of straight people, but it turned out they really needed him.

For more than 20 years now, he's been answering sex advice questions, in graphic detail with a gleeful dirtiness. So yes, this

episode includes saltier language than usual. A lot of the questions are about

what's a deal breaker and what's worth working through, particularly

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