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This Movie Changed Me

Dan in Real Life — Sharon Salzberg

This Movie Changed Me

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Tv & Film, Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.6589 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2018

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Love is an ability, not just a feeling. “Dan in Real Life” brought this lesson home for meditation teacher Sharon Salzberg. The story of Steve Carell’s flawed but loveable character echoed Sharon’s own work — to realize love as a capacity within ourselves.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello, fellow movie fans. I'm Lily Percy and I'll be your guide this week as I talk with Buddhist teacher Sharon Salzberg about the movie that changed her, Dan in real life. If you haven't seen the movie, don't worry. We're going to talk about everything you need to know to follow along and enjoy the wonder that is Steve Correll.

0:23.1

There are movies that I turn to whenever I feel lonely in my life, whenever I feel like

0:28.2

I need a warm hug, and an actual human is not around, and Dan in Real Life is one of

0:33.5

those movies.

0:34.9

It captures the beauty of people in the very best sense. Written and

0:40.9

directed by Peter Hedges, it stars Steve Correll, who plays this loving father, Dan. He is the Dan

0:47.5

in real life, who is also a columnist and regularly gives advice to people all across the country.

0:53.7

He's accessible, he's warm, he's kind.

0:57.4

He has these three daughters that he's trying to raise

1:00.0

since his wife died a few years back.

1:03.2

He's also heartbroken,

1:04.6

and all of this vulnerability that he carries

1:06.7

is at the surface of Steve Currell's performance.

1:11.6

And then she got sick,

1:15.6

and then she was gone.

1:18.6

And that's taken a while.

1:22.6

We should probably talk about something else.

1:25.6

So you're telling me that you're one of those widowers with three daughters

1:30.3

who praise on unsuspecting women in bookstores?

1:33.3

It seems that would be me.

1:35.3

Been there.

1:36.3

Really?

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