Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate | WHGS Ep. 297

We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

Society & Culture, Comedy Interviews, Comedy

4.8 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 10 November 2025

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley is a pincher. Lizzy goes butch on her toilet. Follow Dan on IG, Twitter/X, & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/dandocimo/ https://www.tiktok.com/@dandocimo https://x.com/DanDocimo And see them live this Friday, 11/14, for New York Comedy Fest: https://checkout.square.site/merchant/MLBV7Q7F9NG4G/checkout/G3XH3HZJ5ZEAMJHZSNGFTC74 https://punchup.live/dandocimo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/4fM7EuMqmwg PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex BBOUTIQUE: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE toy or gift card! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/werehavinggaysex-podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	I get he-himmed a lot for sure.
0:02.7	As long as I can tell it's not on purpose.
0:04.8	Yeah. When some people do it, it bothers me. Like, if it's people that I'm, like, close enough to that they should, like, not fucking... But, like, when it's just kind of acquaintances of mine, like, I don't really, you know... I think way worse shit about them. You're... Like, you know, I probably have something meaner about you in my head than misgendering.
0:25.7	You have a lot of dating challenges with your identity?
0:28.3	I like to think that's what it is. Listener, Bottom Nation, hello.
0:43.3	Happy Monday, everybody.
0:45.7	What's something a little different?
0:47.1	Maybe share with your friends.
0:49.6	Share with your friends.
0:51.2	Let them know there's a cool little pod for them.
0:56.9	Yeah. You know, it really helps when you guys share clips, little moments from the episode, yada, yada. And if you've been
1:03.4	listening a while, thank you so much. If you're just here for the first time, I don't know.
1:09.0	It's a podcast. Idiot.
1:11.7	I'm sorry.
1:12.4	Thank you for being here.
1:14.0	Today on the pod, we have Dan Dossimo, an up and coming on the rise star.
1:23.3	They're non-binary, and we talk a little bit about being in male spaces as an AMAB person and getting into the kind of like, you know, being able to pass and some interesting stuff like that is a really, really great episode.
1:40.9	And Dan is so funny, absolute riff machine.
1:45.3	Really, really funny stuff. Patreon.com slash WHGS for a great episode. And Dan is so funny, absolute riff machine. Really, really funny stuff.
1:52.5	Patreon.com slash WHGS for a bonus episode with Dan, where you guys write in your stories,
1:57.6	your gay sex stories. I don't say that enough. They're really fun and I'm very grateful for them.
2:02.8	And if you're not donating, you're not supporting queer art, and you are not part of the resistance.
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