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Now, wait a minute.

You're going to a two-part wedding.

Oh, yeah.

So they're having a wedding A now and a wedding B later in the year?

Yeah, Elvis, this is a growing trend I noticed.

This is now the third wedding I've been invited to where there's part one is happening now. It's just a wedding, it's a kind of wedding junior. And then the big celebration is going to be next year when they can do it. Yeah. How fun. Yeah, it's going to be a lot of fun. They're anxious. They're ready to go. they're ready to get married. I just don't like the idea that's like, wait a second, you're going through the whole process twice and everyone's going to do the dress up thing twice. You have to give them two gifts? That's where I'm having difficulty. No, no, no. I hope not. You don't give a gift for a party. you give a gift for a wedding. They're getting married one time. That's what the gifts were.

I mean, if they're having an engagement party first, then I understand another gift. But there's no engagement party and it's just two, it's two weddings. That's not. It's wedding wedding. They're anxious. They want to get it started. Yeah. Yeah. Go have fun. So do you give half half or do I give

all of it up front or but then it's then it looks like an idiot if I wait till the second wedding

because wait a second, this guy shut up to the first wedding without. I think you're overthinking it.

They're getting married once. It's just one wedding. It's one union at a time for these people. So when they get married, you can give them a gift now or give them a gift later. I mean, I don't think anyone's going to worry about it. I compare it to like tipping the bartender up front. Give them all the money up front, show them that you made the effort, and then number two, you could skate by. I know, but, okay, are you, let me ask you a weird question.

Are you happy for them? Oh, God, yeah. Oh, you got so excited. Okay, focus on that part. Like, focus on that. But I'm going to be worried how they're going to think about me. If I only give, if I do half half, and they're going to be like, oh, my God, he's cheap. Really? in the whole scheme of things in their lives,

I don't think you

and what you do

are going to keep like, oh, my God. It's cheap. Really? In the whole scheme of things in their lives, I don't think you and what you do are going to keep them awake at night.

I think you're okay.

They get judgy when they open the envelopes and they write that stuff down in the ledger. I'm telling you. Wait, now here's what. Do you think that they're going to go, like if you gave something nice at the first wedding, then the second wedding comes.

They're going to go, oh, where's scary's gift?

I mean, they should have it written in the ledger that you gave something nice at the first wedding, then the second wedding comes, they're going to go, oh, where's Scarry's gift?

I mean, they should have it written in the ledger that you gave the last wedding. Danielle, but didn't you keep, like, track, like an accountant of everything that came in and who gave what? I mean, for thank you. Yes, yes, they do. Yeah, they do. Only for the thank you. Right, for the thank you cards. Exactly.

But a ledger makes it sound like there's a dollar value attached to it.

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