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Robin, welcome to the program.

Okay, so I am a family lawyer.

I prepared my parents' advanced directives with very, it was a very long discussion.

And one of the things that they asked is that no matter what, they want to die at home.

And we talked about all the things you can imagine might happen.

And before, when my parents were younger, they took care of my paternal grandparents until they died. And they both had dementia.

They saw what happened.

And my dad made a specific request.

I don't want to live like that ever, ever.

And now he is.

And of course, where we are, you know, end of life.

We don't get to just say he didn't want to do this.

So let's give him his wish just not an option so now

we all live in the same house and my father is extremely demanding on my mother who her problems are

more physical and his are more cognitive.

And most recently, so basically he just yells for her constantly and she comes running.

And I directed the kids.

If I'm not there, if Paul yells, go find out what he wants.

But all he wants is to get grandma, go get

grandma. And it could be for nothing, you know, just look at this commercial on TV and so forth.

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