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Am I the Jerk?

Dad MOCKS ME for my GENDER IDENTITY... so I HUMILIATE HIM in front of THE ENTIRE FAMILY

Am I the Jerk?

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Relationships, Society & Culture

4.83.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 January 2026

⏱️ 24 minutes

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0:00.0

My toxic entitled father mistreated me my entire childhood, as he constantly tried to force me to conform to a gender identity that I did not agree with.

0:08.6

But now that I'm an adult, I decided to get some revenge by not only embarrassing him in front of the entire family, but also exposing him to the family, that he has never been a good father to me.

0:18.4

Here's what happened.

0:19.4

Okay, to start things off, I'll say it bluntly.

0:21.6

My genetic father is a horrible human being. By this point, I've completely cut contact with him.

0:26.4

However, this happened on the very last time I ever had to see him. My mother left him when I was

0:31.0

about 13 years old. However, due to his lies and manipulation, the court system failed me,

0:36.2

and I was still forced to see him. So the

0:38.4

mistreatment he inflicted continued until I was 18 years old and only got worse after the divorce

0:43.6

because he knew that hurting me meant that it would hurt my mother. He is the absolute definition

0:48.6

of trash, and my rather unique situation was only fuel on this dumpster fire. I won't go into too

0:54.1

great of detail

0:54.8

about his depravity, but I will simplify it and say that if you weren't a straight white man or a

1:00.0

straight woman in a prairie dress, then you were going straight to Hades in his eyes and didn't

1:04.3

deserve the time of day. And as for me, being born as both genders, it was a living nightmare.

1:10.0

Now, having both genders basically means

1:12.0

I have incompatible traits from both sides. And I actually didn't even find this out until I was

1:16.7

almost an adult. However, I had a lot of health problems because of it. And due to looking highly

1:21.6

androgynous growing up, I was called a freak. At birth, I was signed off as a girl. And when I began

1:26.7

having some unique changes with puberty, it was drilled into me that I was signed off as a girl, and when I began having some unique changes

1:27.9

with puberty, it was drilled into me that I was basically just an ugly woman who didn't deserve

1:32.8

anything because I didn't meet my father's standards. The discussion about my gender and who I am

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