Cutting and Self Harm (Deep Dive)(2015 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 31 December 2024
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December 12, 2015
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| 0:00.0 | Let me tell you about a client I worked with years ago. |
| 0:03.2 | She was 14, and her parents brought her to therapy because she was flunking her classes, |
| 0:08.4 | and she wasn't following their rules at home, and she was suddenly getting very angry at them. |
| 0:14.3 | She was yelling at them, she was telling them to go to hell, that sort of thing. |
| 0:18.3 | The parents were understandably concerned about their child. |
| 0:21.6 | And this was back in the day when I did in-home therapy. I would meet with the family in |
| 0:26.2 | their house. And so the 14-year-old, she hated me. She really hated me. She didn't want to be |
| 0:34.6 | in therapy. She hated her parents. She hated everyone pretty much except for her friends. |
| 0:38.7 | She just wanted to spend all of her time with her friends. |
| 0:41.4 | And she would sneak out at night to be with her friends. |
| 0:43.9 | And she would sneak out to be with older boys sometimes. |
| 0:47.5 | Her parents were understandably frustrated. |
| 0:50.0 | And they were probably scared of what she would do. |
| 0:53.6 | The parents wanted me to connect with her, but it wasn't easy. |
| 0:57.1 | The client, she refused to talk to me. |
| 0:59.5 | We spent many hours just sitting in silence. |
| 1:02.1 | It was hard work for me, I must say. |
| 1:04.7 | There were times when I just wanted to give up. |
| 1:07.2 | Sometimes she would just lay on the couch while I desperately tried to get her to talk with me. |
| 1:12.3 | She was, she was fairly frustrating for me. But over time, over many sessions, the 14-year-old |
| 1:18.3 | client began to trust me. She began to open up about how much she, about how much she was |
| 1:23.4 | suffering, and how awful she felt, and how angry she was was and how sad she was. I found out that |
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