The fellas couldn’t fit their unending fandom in only one episode, so here’s the first of a two-parter with author and psychiatrist Curt Thompson. His latest book, The Soul of Desire, is a fascinating look at how neuroscience relates to everyday life. Dave and Jon talk to Curt about why shame is like a locomotive, the only way to not screw up your kids, and the damage of using shame as a parenting tool. Thanks to our sponsors! Athletic Greens - Get a FREE 1-year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase wen you go to athleticgreens.com/dadville.  Our Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use the code DADVILLE to get 10% off your first order: https://byheart.com/* Check out Factor 75 and use our code dadville50 for 50% off: https://www.factor75.comPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices