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You know looking okay, but many people hide what they're going through when you see a person's face

They might be bubbly smiling and so on you don't know the pain that they're going through in their hearts and therefore

When she made this video she actually mentioned a few things

It was good that she mentioned a few things because we can actually address this matter

She was exploited as a daughter-in-law and as a wife

She was actually abused to the degree that she felt there is no way out her family couldn't do much because of culture

Her in-laws and her husband according to her kept on

Demanding from her every single thing more than she could actually manage according to her

So what was the problem the problem is when we get married as Muslims the boy is supposed to give the girl

The groom is supposed to give the bride what is known as a mahar mahar is a gift a

gift of whatever whatever she demands whatever she asks whatever her family would like and

He needs to assume responsibility of three basic things as a minimum food clothing and accommodation

He needs to provide for her place. He needs to give her food. He needs to make sure that she is

Dressed and she has clothing that's the minimum. He must assume responsibility of even men cannot afford that much

He should not get married the professor Salams is

Ya Ma'ashara Shababa Manistata I mean cumul ba at a phalia tazaar

Whoever from amongst you or youth is able and capable to assume the full responsibilities of marriage get married

If you can't do that you cannot get married unless obviously you have someone helping you like your father or your folks

That would be okay, but

When we have because of a culture where following that is against the Islamic teaching

Imposed on the bride to pay money to get married so the dowry comes the other way around

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