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So one aspect of that that I wanted to briefly touch on in this hutba is getting our daughters married

So this applies in any situation, but this is one thing that I wanted to touch touch with you today

Is getting our daughters married first and foremost

Allah says that the Shari'a that He gave us, the law that He gave us, the purpose of it is to make our burden light

You read Allahu li'u khafi fa'ankum that Allah wants to lighten the burden from you. So cultural burdens

Cultural burdens can be very very heavy, right? Like for example, you have a family and you've got three daughters

Four daughters and you have this cultural standard that the oldest daughter should get married first

Then the next one then the next one then the next one you created the standard

Allah didn't reveal the standard you have the standard good for you

But then the second daughter not the fourth daughter the second daughter is getting a proposal and a good proposal

And you say no, no, no, you got to wait because there's a line get back in line

Right, and so when you do that you that let's look at it from a Quran point of view

Something came that was halal and your daughter wanted it. She had the right to be married

And you denied her something that was halal for her

Even the prophet of Allah was told sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

Why do you make haram what Allah has made?

Halal like even the prophet wasn't allowed to do that in the in the smallest of things

This is not a small thing. This is a life thing

And you can devastate somebody because they wanted to marry a person

They had an emotional attachment. They had the thought of this is the right person for me

And you deprived them from getting married they end up getting married somewhere else

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